Which I understand but at the time I was half-up and sent a stupid text message about “i thought he was mad but i was glad he was busy and doing what he enjoys” and now it has been a week. His birthday is Sunday and part of me wants to wish him a happy bday, a part of me thinks giving him space is a good thing but I don’t want to be “needy”. I am still just stuck…but am keeping myself busy. Yup, that would be a good example of a double standard, Lauren. I have been on this friendship thingy whatever with some dude in another country. He sometimes sends me texts and if I don’t answer he will continue to text me the next day until I give in and either text back or call him.
Why Does He Keep Texting Me If He Doesn’t Want A Relationship?
I want what’s best for him but st the same time this guy and I have basically been in a mini relationship over the years with everything we have shared. He trusts me which is very tough for him. He and I used to talk on the phone but cannot now and he has a very hectic work schedule so time texting is limited as well because of eyes on him. As of a few days ago he told me he had a plan to see me. I agreed to it and the sexting continued as it always does. Well, last night I told him I have a week off and now is his chance to finally see me and I’m okay with the plan.
So I met this really nice guy 3 weeks ago, we’ve been on 3 dates since then and we’ve got on really well, we talk non-stop during the dates and seem to have good chemistry. He texted me a LOT at first (it was kind of annoying actually so I didn’t always respond) but these past few days less so. He always seemed to be the one to initiate the texting at first. Eventually I realized that he would never tell me, and hell, HE probably didn’t even know what was going on.
Why Does a Gemini Man Stop Texting You Back?
I want to ask if he is mad or if I have done something, but don’t think it will help, as my intuition just says May will be better. I’ve been ‘casually’ seeing this man for a few months, I’ve been on weekends with him etc and he used to text first sometimes. But recently I’ve been texting him first pretty much 100% of the time.
At the end we didn’t kiss, hug, or exchange numbers. But I didn’t think too much of it, because we are both new to the online dating scene and are skeptical about it a little. I sent one message telling him I had fun, and then the next say I sent another one letting him know I am interested and hope to see him again.
You won’t take it all that seriously or view it as anything important anymore. One thing I would encourage you to do, within your own space and inner self, is explore the reaction you’re having to about manhunt.net him not texting you back. Your relationship will improve immensely when you focus on the inner you and not what he’s doing or not doing. Relationships aren’t something to extract happiness from.
Second, every guy is different of course, but in general if you don’t text/contact a guy you are giving the impression that you don’t like him. We don’t play games in that way (if at all). If you don’t show interest then we assume there is not interest. Sure if you text a lot it can get to a point of being needy but atleast we know there is interest. You are COMPLETELY wrong that guys don’t take it as a loss of interest.
I told him it would be less complicated now because me and my dude might be ending things. He seemed into the idea of things being easier now–I thought we were on the right track to schedule some fun. I didn’t talk to him for a day and then hit him up the day after with a cutesy, suggestive message.
Well that’s the last I heard of him, and I’m seeing him at the lakehouse next month. I have no idea how that will go, but I need your opinion. Why do you think he was talking to me all nice, every day, taking the initiative to talk to me and try to see me, and then one day just drop out of the world? And what do you think I should expect at the lakehouse? If he says he wants to be with me, should I make it work or end it because of the distance between where we live and also the way he just left me because he could do it again? Yet, I know girls don’t like guys who couldn’t keep their general promises like “I’ll be right back.” “I’ll call you at such such time” is not solely because of neediness.
Although, I’d like you to keep in mind that the only way to know for sure is by him communicating his reasons to you. Approach the situation with calmness, and don’t let it disrupt your peace. Let your answer come from a place of self-respect, and peace of mind.
Alexander the Great
There are lots of single men looking for a girl like you so don’t settle. If a guy is into you he will make the effort. I realized pretty early on that the guy I’m seeing isn’t much of a texter. I figured he was distracted but wondered why he didn’t make an effort to focus while he texted me. I’ve since learned that he is very busy guy (also has 2 jobs) and, yet, he still finds time to see me.
And better for the love match, as well, since he prefers partners who can take breaks from communicating and are happy to lead a busy life while apart. Truth – Some guys like to play it cool and don’t want to be too eager when it comes to replying to texts. It’s understandable that, sometimes, he might actually forget to reply. Keep your mind open because, if he happens to take a while to text you back and it comes with an apology, it might be true.
But the game can get tiring really quick for guys. Which is why we tend to ignore our phones to get a little bit of a break. Nothing is more frustrating – and more common, it seems – than the experience of texting a guy and he stops replying to you. Once she started implementing the advice, she started noticing improvements in her relationship almost immediately. After speaking to Lucy (one of their relationship consultants) and telling her of her desperate situation, Lucy was able to give her some concrete steps to follow over the following days.